New York City · New Jersey · Worldwide
The Way We Were
Wedding Film House
Beautiful, Adventurous, Authentic Films — New York City, New Jersey And Beyond
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A film that lives on long after the day does
Based in New Jersey and serving couples throughout the New York City area, The Way We Were specializes in cinematic wedding videography that feels authentic, not staged. From intimate ceremonies at venues like Jasna Polana in Princeton to destination weddings across the country, every film is shot to capture real moments — the laughter, the nerves, the unscripted glances — and edited into a story you'll want to watch again and again. Whether you're planning a wedding in Manhattan, the Hudson Valley, or anywhere in between, we'd love to help tell your story on film.
Our Favorite New Jersey Wedding Venues →Celebrations Portrayed in Every Frame
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The Filmmaker
Meet Carl
I'm Carl, the New York wedding videographer behind The Way We Were. My approach is built around authenticity over staging — real laughter, real nerves, real glances — captured with a cinematic eye and cut into films that feel beautiful, adventurous, and true to who you are. Every wedding is treated as its own story, not a template, because that's the only way it stays worth watching years from now.
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Sophisticated Storytelling
Every frame is carefully curated to showcase the splendor of your love. From the intricate details of your ceremony to the grandeur of your reception, we specialize in weaving together a narrative that goes beyond the visual, capturing the heart and soul of your love story.
Our Approach
In Every Frame
From the initial consultation to the final edit, we work closely with you to ensure that your vision comes to life on screen. Let us be your guides as we embark on this cinematic journey together, capturing the magic of your love story in the vibrant tapestry of New York City and beyond.
Experience a wedding film as unforgettable as your love
Let's Capture Your StoryFrequently Asked Questions
What areas do you film weddings in?
We're based in New Jersey and primarily serve New York City, New Jersey, and the surrounding tri-state area, with availability for destination weddings worldwide.
See our destination weddings →How far in advance should we book?
Most couples book 9 to 12 months ahead, especially for peak wedding season (May through October) and popular venues.
How long is our final wedding film?
Our signature highlight films typically run 5 to 10 minutes, with optional extended or full-ceremony cuts available depending on your package.
When will we receive our wedding film?
Delivery typically takes 8 to 12 weeks after your wedding day, depending on the season.