New York Wedding Videography

The Way We Were

About

The Way We Were

The filmmaker and storyteller behind The Way We Were.

Carl, founder and filmmaker at The Way We Were

The Filmmaker

Storytelling, one wedding day at a time

Carl has always been drawn to the quiet, unscripted moments a wedding day is full of — the nervous exhale before walking down the aisle, the look on a parent's face during a first dance, the laughter that happens when nobody's paying attention. What started as a passion for filmmaking has grown into a studio built around a simple idea: your day deserves to be told with care, not just recorded.

Our Philosophy

Love Meets Elegance

Based just outside New York City, we're a small team of storytellers first and filmmakers second. We're drawn to the fleeting glances and unscripted moments that no one thinks to plan for, because those are usually the ones that matter most years later. Every film we deliver is built to be rewatched — a keepsake for your family, not just a highlight reel.

How We Work

Our Process, Start To Finish

Every project begins with a conversation — we want to understand your vision long before we ever pick up a camera. On the day itself, we stay out of the way, capturing moments as they unfold rather than staging them. Once filming wraps, we bring that same care to the edit, shaping everything we've gathered into a film that feels true to how your day actually felt.

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